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Alan and Willa Medinger, R.I.P.

Tonight I learned that Alan Medinger, founder of Regeneration, died on 
June 28, 2010 and that his wife Willa died on September 16, 2010.

Regeneration is an exit ministry for gays and persons with sexual 
addictions.  See http://www.regenerationministries.org/.  Alan founded 
Regeneration in 1979, five years after I founded Integrity (November 
1974)..  Alan was the first president of Exodus (1980).  See "A Life Well 
Lived:  The Legacy of Alan Medinger" at 

Regeneration began with close connections to the Episcopal Church, and I 
connected with Alan and Willa at several General Conventions.  We 
occasionally compared notes on how some Episcopalians wanted both groups 
to disappear.  Those who wanted lgbts healed were never willing to spend 
much money on the commitment.

As an outsider journalist I attended a Regeneration conference at 
Catonsville, Maryland in 1993.  My notes on that conference are still 
available on the QRD (Queer Resources Directory) at 
http://www.qrd.org/qrd/religion/anti/exgay/regeneration.txt.  I enjoyed 
reliving the experience by re-reading my account tonight.  I had no doubt 
that I was with sister and brother Christians and with lots of folks in my 

I treasure my friendship with Alan and Willa.  They were bright, gentle, 
unpretentious people who gave quietly and faithfully to their ministry.

I remember with special delight an evening when the three of us met for 
dinner in Baltimore, where they lived.  I was to be the host, but they 
insisted on hosting me and took me to a fabulous neighborhood restaurant 
which featured soft-shell crabs served on old newspapers.  The restaurant 
gave us towels for bibs, and we had at 'em.

They were not interested in attacking me or converting me, nor I them.  
We were clear and candid about our disagreements, but we did not let them 
divide us.  I rejoiced that in his marriage Alan had found healing from 
sexual addictions.  I rejoiced in the wholeness that Ernest and I found in 
our marriage.  They always asked about him with kindness.

It soft shell crabs are on heaven's menu, I look forward to another 
newspaper banquet with Alan and Willa, this time as always, God's treat.

God's ways are beyond our knowing and finding out, but God's love is as 
knowable and accessible as the neighbors and friends whom God gives to us.

Rest in peace, Alan and Willa, rest in peace dear friends.


Louie Crew, 377 S. Harrison St., 12D, East Orange, NJ 07018. 973-395-1068